Meet with Stephen51099871 - from USA

So I quit my job and moved to Moscow for 2 years. While I'm back in the USA, I still come to Russia a couple times each year. So, let's not waste time on countless letters, let's do it right now. If you are in Moscow, then meeting should be easy; if not, we'll figure it out. Please do not expect a lot of letters from me. I get lots of letters with all types of proposals, but only a meeting will show that you are serious. I know that love and intimacy is out there for me, so I'm offering myself you for consideration. I want a person to love with great passion, affection and with whole to build a relationship filled with love and laughter. I'm a "pleaser." I focus on the positive, and make people feel good about themselves. My happiness comes from within, and it is not dependent upon what other people do to me or for me. My happiness depends upon how I choose to react to my environment ... either in a positive or a negative way. I often read "I want a man who will make me happy." If this is so, you will never find such a man. NO ONE can "make" us happy. It is an impossible burden to place on another human being. Be yourself with me. Don't try to change me, or own me. We need to keep our individuality and add to each others lives. We need to accept and respect each other for who we are. I accept a person for who they are and what they are. I find their strengths and support them in those areas. I believe it is important for each person in a relationship to maintain their individuality, and be free to pursue their own personal goals and professional ambitions. I don't understand jealousy, and I don't understand anyone who sets out to "change" someone else. Jealousy is a negative emotion, and I refuse to give anyone the power to make me experience a negative feeling. Besides, if I am with you, and you capture another man's attention, should that not make me feel good? At the end of the evening, you are coming to my bed, not his ... the fact that he is interested is only a strong indication that I have made an excellent choice! It is flattering, not only to you, but also to me that others find you attractive, is it not? My star sign is Pisces, so passionate emotions with a strong desire for a peaceful life is a constant state for me. But as is reflected in my sign (two fish swimming in opposite directions) this is a difficult balance to achieve. Qualities I think are important in a mate are: Intelligence, Hard working, Ethical, Passionate, Sensual, Affectionate:oops: :oops: , Patient, Very clean and organized (keep a nice house), Open-minded in all things, Very sociable, Affectionate :oops: :oops: , Loyal, Trustworthy, Communicative, Easy going, Willing to live anywhere in the USA, Willing to pursue their own job/career, Willing to maintain a high level of physical fitness,Oh ... did I mention affectionate!:oops: :oops: . I know, I mention affection many times. Affection is a 24 hour per day proposition. It is a look, a touch, the way we speak to each other, always holding hands, opening doors, spontaneous kisses (at home, in the metro, while walking on the street...). I have to warn you; I think we are in trouble!!! If like you, and if you like me, and show me you are as affectionate as I am; well look out! Affection is sooooooo important to me. Get ready to be kissed ... and often, held and hugged, with meaning, caressed all over. If we are attracted to each other, why not? I think it is affection that is the glue that bonds all aspects of a relationship, no matter how we feel or the circumstance ... do you agree? Are you ready to have me show it to you? To have this in your life? Obviously other things come from this affection, but that is desert; I'm talking about every moment of every day! I mentioned that I think that affection is the glue that holds a relationship together. In times of struggle, happiness, or in our routine, we must maintain that physical/emotional bond or we will quickly lose each other. All I ask from you is that you try to participate in all of the things I like or want you to try to do. At least try it once! In return, I will eagerly try to do all of the things that you asks me to do, and all of the things that are important to you. I don't expect perfection, just a willingness to try.